Pretty Chiq's Blog

"Relationships are what we make them, not what they are. If it is successful, it's because we have successfully worked at them. Relationships don't fail, the people in them do." --PrettyChiq       ( Caution: T his is not a solution to every problem, but it is honest advice)   Most women I know complain constantly about not having a man.   When they have a man, they complain about what he does and what he does not do.   I have a simple blog to change this cycle and give a solution to all the nonsense. The problem with the man, whether he is your man, someone else man you want because you've borrowed him, a fantasy man/crush, boo-thang, whatever category he may fall in your life, is not him, it is YOU!   The answer to most problems in any relationship starts with the person who has the conflict. If you didn't view it as a problem, then there is none. Clearly, however, if it is causing you some form of conflict, whether it may be ethical, emotional or whatever

"Find something to believe in. And find yourself. And when you do, pass it on in the future." --Unkown  I was talking to one of my best friends and big sister and she encouraged me to write about this. We were talking about our flaws and how far we have come into ourselves. We discussed the importance of using your downfalls, weaknesses and misfortunes, and turning them into positives or to get positive results! This discussion reminded me of something one of my patients taught me. Let me explain.... My patient was one of the strongest women I knew. Standing at a stunning 4'5, 89lbs, she was recovering from breast cancer, a survivor. I was at the end of one of my visits and my patient said something I'll never forget. She said, "I wear my scars like they are the best accessories I have." I was stunned. She moved her very-well padded bossoms and said, "I get so much attention from the men now. Best thing ever happened to m

  "If you are learning what your life. It is to create one."    --Unknown "Beautiful people realize beauty is subjective, but they know their beauty is profound and unique. They are custom-made and one-in-a-billion. Their confidence does not reside in what other's say, but in their own views of themselves."                                  --PrettyChiq  DAILY ADVICE I have too many friends who are constantly wondering why they hate their jobs and why they are not where they want to be. Many always ask me, "How come you're always happy and always have money?" My response is usually very simple. "I changed the way I look at shit." Huh? What? Gasps....Yes...change the way things look, and they're meaning and purpose also changes. Steps to Accomplishing Goals are simple... Wake your ass up every day with a purpose. And don't be an ass to say, oooo I'm going to save the world...That's illogical and senseless. 1.  Mak