Pretty Chiq's Blog

"It is through truly bad can we truly appreciate the good." --PrettyChiq     Things are as bad as we make them; a relationship is no different! It is all based on our perspective. You miss the train or bus, you're annoyed. You miss the train or bus that gets into an accident and there are causalities, you feel grateful. You still missed the train. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. I have learned some people rely on bad experiences to learn? My advice is to rely on the good and bad experience both....appreciate each step of your journey . I am saying, 'stop questioning things and learn to live with ease. Live in love, and be contented.' I can recall speaking with a friend of mine, and my friend was complaining about not being able to open up to her boyfriend. I believed my friend's boyfriend, despite their frequent ups and downs, was a good man and had the potential to be a great man. Based on the things she have tol...

"Sometimes much does not have to be said, but you have to learn how to forgive." --PrettyChiq      When someone can look at you and all they can see is anger and pain, you are holding onto things that are not conducive to a healthy life--anger, resentment, pain etc. I am not stranger to those emotions, and for the longest while, I have fought a journey to change my perspective about my past and regrets. It all started with acceptance.   You have to both acknowledge what was done, and express yourself. When I say express yourself, it means reaching out to the people that have hurt you. It is not beneficial or necessary to do such in a degrading manner, so be classy about it. Being classy allows you to hold your composure and not be like the persons or person who have hurt you. You can also write your feelings down if you are not the confrontational type and rip or burn them up, sometimes people do not need to see your emotions. It is all about not hiding your pa...