Pretty Chiq's Blog

How can you expect someone to love and cherish you when you cannot, do not and will not love and cherish yourself? If you're worthless to yourself, chances are you will be treated as such. Never met royalty who treated themselves like peasants. Remember people respect and treat you only as you allow yourself to be treated. Get it together, relationships are built not found. --PrettyChiq     Every relationship begins with oneself. The first thing to address is who are you?   Too often I hear people say they want the perfect relationship, yet they cannot tell me what their view of a perfect relationship is. They oftentimes do not even know themselves much less what they want from someone else. How can someone else know what you want or can give you what you need if you don't even know what that is? How can you expect someone to fulfill you, and accompany your dreams if you don't even know yourself or what you want?   This has always ...

"Be strong enough to stand up for what you believe in Bold enough to not care about what others may think Being unique means being different It also means knowing others cannot accept you or your beliefs Everyone will not support or accept your vision Believe in yourself You are worth it!" --PrettyChiq      We give power to those when we forget who we are. Everyone is different, and while we may have respect for ourselves, we have a few people who we allow to get away with many things.   Everyone have one or two persons who the place on a high pedestal. For whatever reasons, we respect and honor the respect of those persons very much. Oftentimes, we forget ourselves, curb our standards and give those people much more room to disappoint us than we should.   Who are these people?   They are Friends Family Significant others Mentors Celebrities Anyone we admire We tend to forget one thing however, they are h...