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Relationship Advice: Reality Check Part Three

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"It is through truly bad can we truly appreciate the good." --PrettyChiq     Things are as bad as we make them; a relationship is no different! It is all based on our perspective. You miss the train or bus, you're annoyed. You miss the train or bus that gets into an accident and there are causalities, you feel grateful. You still missed the train. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. I have learned some people rely on bad experiences to learn? My advice is to rely on the good and bad experience both....appreciate each step of your journey . I am saying, 'stop questioning things and learn to live with ease. Live in love, and be contented.' I can recall speaking with a friend of mine, and my friend was complaining about not being able to open up to her boyfriend. I believed my friend's boyfriend, despite their frequent ups and downs, was a good man and had the potential to be a great man. Based on the things she have tol...

Deciphering Relationships (My perspective)

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"Everyone wants the perks of a relationship, no one wants to make the sacrifice. We're living in days when Cinderalla no longer have her appeal as Divorce Court seems a must and 'hoes' are no longer garden tools used to clean the garden. Truth remains, we're in the days when polygamy is norm and monogamy seems to be abnormal. So is it ever worth fighting for?" --PrettyChiq       "There is no such thing as the perfect man or woman. No one is perfect but God. When you're seeking perfectiong seek him. People will each and every time disappoint you. You disappoint yourself at times, what make others so different?" --PrettyChiq   I have watched many great relationships form and even greater ones end. I watched friends with great relationships complain about their significant others, as ones with none complain about what the do not have. This is not directed to any of my friends, but is genuinely based on my experience and what I have genuinely obser...