Pretty Chiq's Blog

When in love, we oftentimes believe the best of people--we also see what we want to see. -PrettyChiq Sometimes the best thing you can do is walk away and continue to live and appreciate life. -PrettyChiq Many women and men fail to realize the men  or women they love can change overtime. Life has a way of 'softening' or 'hardening' people; it all depends on your nature--whether you're naturally a loving or hateful person. I have learned some people create the perfect image of who they believe someone wants them to be....My ex was no different, he created the image of the loving son that adores children and does not drink or cheat....while he really resents his parents, cheats and does drink. I became a victim of a web of lies. Over the years I have come to realize a man or woman obsessed with something is the most dangerous person I can know. My ex was obsessed with possessing women. While some men are obsessed with fame, money and power...he was and i...

  "Getting angry is actually punishing yourself for the actions of others." --PrettyChiq      Never let people get under your skin. Do realize, no matter the age or intellectual dexterity of the person who has gotten under your skin, some people will not grow up nor do they have the emotional sensitivity to be anymore than what they are.   I have come across many emotionally insensitive and troubled people. As a result of their pain and shame, they desire that everyone around them must also be miserable. I knew someone once asked me, "why are you so damn happy all the time, it's annoying." I cannot understand why and how one cannot be happy, when one is living life with a clearly defined purpose.     People are not going to change, because they do not want to. If anything, realize those miserable people want you as angry and as bitter as they are. Never give anyone or anything that power, they are not worth it! They cannot ap...